More often than not, especially under stress or when faced with ambiguity, the stories we default to are negative. We assume incompetence before seeking clarification, suspect ill-intent before considering alternative explanations, and attribute behavior to character flaws rather than situational factors.

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We’ve all been there. You set a goal with the best of intentions—perhaps to exercise regularly, eat healthier, or finally finish that passion project. But despite your motivation and initial enthusiasm, somewhere along the way, progress stalls. You hit a roadblock, life gets busy, or the goal starts to feel less attainable than when you first dreamed it up. It’s a frustrating cycle, leaving many people feeling disheartened and questioning their ability to achieve their dreams. 

The emotional weight of repeated failure can be overwhelming, leading to a cycle of disappointment and even self-doubt. This is where understanding the deeper reasons behind goal-setting challenges can make all the difference. Why do so many people struggle to stick to their goals? And what can be done to change this pattern?

One simple distinction made all the difference.

Does the month of December send a chill down your spine, and not from the winter cold alone? Let's talk about the dissonance of December. Do you remember the good old days, when December felt more like a dream and less like a deadline? 

As a child, December is magical. There's winter break. There's sledding and skating. There are gifts and gatherings. No pressure. All fun.

But, as the calendar flips and adulting becomes a reality, December morphs into something a little less enchanting. 

• Year-end goals to meet.

• Gifts to buy (Oh the budgeting!)

• Gatherings with people you don't really like (Et tu, office parties?).

• And the biggest of them all - reflecting back on the so-called 'failures' of the past year.

Before you reach for that stress ball, remember, it doesn't have to be this way. By the end of this blogpost, you will know how to break through the chaos and reclaim the joy of December. Let's start this journey together, shall we?